Often times, we hear people speak to us about loved ones in past tense.

Clearly, we know the reality of death in our consciousness, but we also sometimes feel the ever present sting in past tense conversations.

With a new path to follow, you can create your own unique crystal ball of memories that you can retreat to, while still living in the present.

After losing the two most influential men in my life, my father Frank and my husband Nick, in a short time span, the foundation of my very being was rocked to it's core.

Knowing that I had to give them up in a tangible sense, I wanted to still feel them and find solace in the present with them.

So I created my own crystal ball that I can retreat to any time I desire to. When I am finished visiting my place of solitude with them, I am able to continue my life just as it is in present day. They continue to live in my heart and in my spirit.

These techniques are essential in healing your heart, because it is inevitable that our hearts will be hurt again.

In this life we know that as long as we love, we will hurt when that person leaves this world as we know it. We will no longer be able to touch them, have two way conversations with them, in the tangible form.

But if we create and design our own crystal ball with them in mind, we can go places and heal our wounds with hope, faith and a limitless amount of love.

When there is a loss of a pet, to divorce, a friendship, a family filled house that had to be sold, etc...people feel loss and loss inevitably hurts. That crystal ball can keep you connected in a healthy way while gaining the strength to let go of the pain associated to this loss.